
List of things I’d like to remind my future self.
1. Kindness: No matter how successful you get in the ladder of life, remember to be kind. Both to yourself and to others. In the world full of like-minded people, kindness is a blessing. And I want you to be that person who is a little kinder and therefore, a little more lovable. There is nothing that can certainly beat people who treat you with kindness.
2. Never be afraid to love wholeheartedly: I won’t tell you that you will always have wonderful days. And I won’t even tell you that you’ll make it smoothly through life. I won’t. Rather, I want you to know that even after some rough relationships, I want you to stand for yourself and never stop appreciating and loving the other person to the best you can. You’ve always been an epitome of love. I don’t want you to lose that sparkle just because some other person didn’t have the capacity to give you enough of their love.
3. Be there for yourself: Whether you like it or not, you’ll always be with yourself. I don’t want you to just be with yourself, I want you to be there for yourself. Got the difference? Listen, honey, I want you to be with yourself in a good way. I want you to tell yourself everything positive, inspiring and lovely every now and then. I want you to know that you’re confident, amazing and inspiring in your own little ways. If you ever have this thought “Am I enough?” At that point of time, I want you to tell yourself boldly, “Yes, I’m. I’m capable of doing anything I wish to.” 4. Your family and some close friends should always be your priority. You should be happy enough to make time for them. There are no excuses acceptable when it comes to family and friends that are no less than a family.
5. At any point of time, if you feel like you’re not living life on your own terms and conditions or you’re not kind of happy, I want you to stop and ponder. I want you to introspect, revisit what makes you happy, switch careers if you feel like, and keep experimenting every now and then. Tell me, what is the point of living, if you aren’t happy?